Are You A Living Magnet?

Have you ever pondered upon the fact how selfish and self centered people have become over the period of time? People don't seem to see anything beyond their interests. If husband doesn't give quality time to his family, he can always very easily escape by telling what a troublesome time he's going through because of his authoritative boss in office, or his promotion issues, because of the loans that he has taken for his house or car, pending payment of policy for the kids, etc. After which, the family can't demand any time from him anymore. But when he plays his favorite sports like squash, golf or tennis; when he plays his favorite instrument like guitar or flute; when he reads newspaper , watches his favorite program on television; when he downloads movies, songs or checks mails and chats with friends over the computer, when he is with his friends and yapping to glory over the phone, does he, even for a moment, think of those problems that he used as cushions to escape from his duties towards his family? Nope. Why? His life is compartmentalized, where the family is not spared a room.

Staying at home on holidays or spending more time at home doesn't matter.What really matters is the quality time given to your family. Helping your spouse with the drudgery of household work, playing with your kids without the remote control or any such device in your hand, taking genuine interest in the interests of your family is all that is required to have a happy and peaceful life in the real sense of the term. It's the ultimate goal for which one has to aspire and persevere. After all, all of us word hard for the betterment of our family as a whole.

All For Love!!!

Life takes a sweet turn when you meet that "someone special". All the love stories, the romantic movies, the quotes of love come to life at once making you feel like the only one who rules the heart of the prince. You breathe love, you dream love, you bathe in love.You smile in public place thinking of your love, much to your embarrassment, but it doesn't matter. You become the most innovative person on earth trying out novel methods and techniques to make that "someone special" feel special. The gift shop becomes your favorite hang out. And guess what? Your friends take a back seat in your life.The phone becomes your best friend which brings you so close to your heart-throb.The affinity of his mouth and your ear over the phone is sensational.The ring tone sounds sweeter than the cooing of a cuckoo.It has the mammoth power to make your heart pound at enormous speed.You smile even when you flunk or when you are hurt. Sadness, depression, frustration, hopelessness, all are kept at bay. Because this is a world with pure and powerful emotions and clean heart. It's a world where love, compassion, understanding, devotion, rule.You lie to your parents, to your friends and siblings. Hmph! So much for the love of that "someone special".